It turns out that such a scenario is the most widespread one among the soap operas and it is not for nothing. Such situation is typical at the beginning of any relationships. Often you are so crazy for her, while she is a bit more than indifferent. Does it sound familiar? Having experienced the unfairness like this, a weak partner usually starts to drive another one crazy by the extent of persistence and impossible expectations. Although many couples live amazingly without ‘unnecessary’ feelings and have their relationships built on respect only if you still want to be her one and only prince from a fairy tale, go ahead and read three ways to solve this problem.
Figure out What “love” Means to Her
Your date does not force you to have sex in the lavatory, does not send you nude selfies, does not call every hour, and this is definitely because you’re beloved just mess around with you.
Forget about stupid stereotypes.
First of all, sometimes there is a difference between love and passion. What is more, you deceive yourself if you think the first will guarantee the second. In most cases, with the course of time passion evokes more severe and prolonged feelings. Therefore, are you sure, you want her to have a crush on you simply because of sex?
Secondly, there are different temperaments of people. That is why each person expresses love especially. Find out maybe she is already into you but does her best in hiding feelings.
Thirdly, before rushing things between you guys, better think whether you are ready to suffer endless arguments which is a part of your ‘may death do us part’ plan. Rose-colored glasses of love, hormones and feelings tend to blind things like different interests, bad traits of character and nothing in common. Be sure she is the one before taking everything into your own hands.
Rake Over the Dust and Ashes of her Relationships’ Past
Talk about her exes. In fact, many women are still in love at the beginning of brand new relationships with another man. Maybe when she suddenly became single dating was the only way out in order to recover sooner from a terrible breakup. That is right. It often happens when you are dying to kiss her the moment she pops up in your mind, while she still falls for that bastard she has been with recently. In such a case, do not run to extremes. Just put up with it. Never try to look or behave like him. What is more, do not offend or blame the woman you love for the way she feels. Just let her know that you are here for her instead of him. You are better, confident and extraordinary. It is cool, interesting and fun to hang out with you. The more complexes and scares you will express the sooner she will dump you.
Sooner or Later A True Woman Will Choose A Calm, Cozy Life in Real Relationships
If you demonstrate your lady honest love and concern, shortly you are likely to get the same in response (taking into account you picked a well-deserved female). Do not beg or give money to make somebody fall in love with you. Otherwise, she will be able to see nothing more than a moneybag and, consequently, just use you. That is why be confident and sure that she is the one you need. Fight your insecurity. Try not to act like a jealous caveman and you will easily win the heart even of the most desirable woman.